Digital Abuse and Tech Stalking on the Rise in New York

Domestic violence no longer happens only behind closed doors. In New York, survivors increasingly report digital abuse — abusers using technology to stalk, harass, and control. From hidden GPS trackers to spyware installed on phones, digital abuse is a rapidly growing threat that leaves survivors feeling unsafe even after leaving violent relationships.

How Abusers Use Technology

• GPS Stalking: Devices hidden in cars or belongings to track movement.

• Spyware Apps: Abusers secretly monitor text messages, calls, and browsing history.

• Smart Home Devices: Controlling locks, lights, and security cameras remotely.

• Social Media Harassment: Fake accounts, public shaming, or doxxing survivors online.

Why Digital Abuse Is Dangerous

• Survivors often don’t know they are being monitored.

• Abusers can find survivors even in shelters.

• Courts and police may lack training to recognize tech-based abuse.

• Emotional damage is compounded by the loss of privacy and autonomy.

Advocates Call for Action

• Training for police on tech abuse.

• Updated laws to classify digital stalking as domestic violence.

• Tech safety programs for survivors (e.g., Safe Horizon’s digital literacy workshops).

• Partnerships with tech companies to block abuser accounts.

Conclusion

Digital abuse is one of the fastest-growing forms of domestic violence in New York. Survivors need updated legal protections and specialized support to stay safe in a digital age.

FAQs

1. What is digital abuse?
   When abusers use technology to stalk, harass, or control survivors.

2. What are examples of digital abuse?
   GPS trackers, spyware, smart home device control, online harassment.

3. Why is it hard to stop?
   Because many survivors don’t realize they’re being monitored.

4. Are NY laws addressing this?
   Advocates are pushing for stronger recognition of digital abuse.

5. Where can survivors get help?
   Organizations like Safe Horizon provide digital safety resources.