How Survivors Secretly Prepare to Leave

Documents that may help in your situation

If you're filing or preparing for court, you may need:

📄 Medical Records Release

Authorizes release of your medical records to use as evidence if needed.

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Leaving an unsafe situation is a significant and courageous step. For those in Scottsdale, preparing carefully can enhance your safety and peace of mind.

Assess Your Situation

Before taking any steps, evaluate your circumstances. Reflect on your needs, the resources available to you, and any potential risks involved in leaving.

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Develop a Safety Plan

Creating a safety plan is crucial. Identify a safe place to go, such as a friend’s house or a local shelter. Think about how you will get there and what you will say if asked.

Gather Important Documents

Start collecting essential documents that you may need, such as identification, financial records, and any legal documents related to your situation.

Build a Support Network

Reach out to trusted friends, family, or local support services. Having a support system can provide emotional strength and practical assistance when you need it most.

What to Bring / Document Checklist

Identification (ID, passport)
Financial documents (bank statements, credit cards)
Legal documents (court orders, custody papers)
Medical records
Important contacts (phone numbers)
Personal items (clothes, toiletries)
Emergency cash

What Happens Next

After leaving, you may need to find new housing and establish a new routine. Consider reaching out to local resources for ongoing support, such as counseling or legal aid.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What should I do if I’m in immediate danger?

Call local emergency services or go to a safe location immediately.

2. How can I find local support services?

You can search online or contact local organizations that specialize in survivor support.

3. Is there financial assistance available?

Many organizations offer financial assistance for housing, legal fees, and other essential needs.

4. Can I change my phone number for safety?

Yes, consider changing your phone number and using apps that enhance privacy.

5. How can I ensure my new location is safe?

Research the area, avoid sharing your location on social media, and inform trusted individuals of your whereabouts.

If you want local help, you can privately browse lawyers, therapists, shelters, and hotlines near you at DV.Support.