How Survivors Secretly Prepare to Leave

Documents that may help in your situation

If you're filing or preparing for court, you may need:

📄 Medical Records Release

Authorizes release of your medical records to use as evidence if needed.

These are optional tools — use what feels right for you.

Leaving an unsafe situation requires careful planning and consideration. Each survivor's journey is unique, and it’s essential to tailor your preparations to fit your specific circumstances.

Assess Your Situation

Understanding your environment is crucial. Take time to evaluate your safety and the potential risks involved in leaving. Consider aspects like:

Your immediate safety
Support systems available
Access to resources

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Access state-specific legal forms — ready to fill and file.

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Create a Safety Plan

A well-thought-out safety plan can make a significant difference. Here are steps to consider:

Identify safe locations to go to.
Establish a code word with trusted friends or family.
Plan your escape route carefully.

Gather Important Documents

Collect and store essential documents securely. Important items to gather include:

Identification (passport, driver's license)
Financial documents (bank statements, credit cards)
Medical records (prescriptions, health cards)
Legal documents (marriage certificate, custody papers)

Build a Support Network

Connecting with a support network is vital. Reach out to:

Friends and family you trust
Support groups in Lindsay
Local shelters or organizations

What to Bring / Document Checklist

Personal identification
Financial information and cash
Clothing and essential items
Important phone numbers
Emergency contact information

What Happens Next

After leaving, it’s important to have a plan for your next steps. Consider:

Finding temporary housing or shelter
Accessing legal support
Engaging with counseling services

FAQ

Q: What should I do if I’m in immediate danger?
A: Call local emergency services right away.
Q: Can I leave without my partner knowing?
A: Yes, many survivors prepare discreetly to ensure their safety.
Q: How do I find local resources?
A: Check local directories or visit DV.Support for assistance.
Q: What if I don’t have money to leave?
A: Look for local shelters or organizations that can provide financial support.
Q: Is it okay to talk to friends about my situation?
A: Yes, confiding in trusted friends can provide emotional support.

If you want local help, you can privately browse lawyers, therapists, shelters, and hotlines near you at DV.Support.