How Survivors Secretly Prepare to Leave

Documents that may help in your situation

If you're filing or preparing for court, you may need:

📄 Medical Records Release

Authorizes release of your medical records to use as evidence if needed.

These are optional tools — use what feels right for you.

Leaving an unsafe situation is a significant step towards reclaiming your life. If you are in Annex or surrounding areas, knowing how to prepare can make all the difference.

Assess Your Situation

Take time to evaluate your circumstances. Understand what resources you have and the potential challenges you might face. This can include financial resources, support systems, and safe locations.

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Access state-specific legal forms — ready to fill and file.

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Create a Safety Plan

Develop a plan that outlines how you will leave and where you will go. This might include identifying a safe friend or family member's home where you can stay temporarily.

Gather Important Documents

Collect any necessary documents like identification, financial records, and medical information. Keep these in a safe, easily accessible place.

Establish a Support Network

Reach out to trusted friends or family members who can provide emotional support. Consider contacting local organizations that assist survivors, as they can offer resources and guidance.

Prepare a Go-Bag

Pack a small bag with essential items that you can take with you when you leave. This should be kept in a discreet location.

What to Bring / Document Checklist

Identification (ID, passport, etc.)
Financial documents (bank statements, credit cards)
Medical records and medications
Clothes for a few days
Important contacts (phone numbers of trusted friends)
Any legal documents (court orders, custody papers)
Personal items (photos, keepsakes)

What Happens Next

Once you leave, it is crucial to have a plan for your safety and well-being. This might involve finding temporary housing, securing financial assistance, and connecting with local services for survivors.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What should I do if I am in immediate danger?

If you are in immediate danger, please call local emergency services right away.

2. How can I find legal help?

You can contact local shelters or organizations that assist survivors, which often provide legal resources or referrals.

3. Will my information be kept confidential?

Many organizations prioritize your privacy and will keep your information confidential.

4. What if I don’t have any financial resources?

Seek assistance from local shelters or support organizations that can help provide financial resources or housing.

5. How can I support someone who is preparing to leave?

Be a listening ear, provide emotional support, and help them connect with resources they may need.

If you want local help, you can privately browse lawyers, therapists, shelters, and hotlines near you at DV.Support.