How Survivors Secretly Prepare to Leave

Documents that may help in your situation

If you're filing or preparing for court, you may need:

📄 Medical Records Release

Authorizes release of your medical records to use as evidence if needed.

These are optional tools — use what feels right for you.

Preparing to leave a difficult situation can be challenging and requires careful planning. Here are some steps you can take to ensure your safety and well-being.

Assess Your Situation

Understanding your circumstances is the first step. Consider your safety, support system, and resources available to you in West End.

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Develop a Safety Plan

Create a detailed safety plan that includes escape routes, safe locations to go, and emergency contacts. This plan should be kept confidential.

Identify Safe Places

Research local shelters and other safe spaces in British Columbia where you can find temporary refuge if needed.

Gather Important Documents

Collect essential documents such as identification, financial information, and any legal documents that may support your situation.

Secure Financial Resources

Open a separate bank account if possible and set aside funds for your departure. Consider your budget for living expenses once you leave.

Build a Support Network

Reach out to trusted friends, family, or local support groups in West End. Having a support system can provide emotional and practical help.

Plan Your Exit

Choose a time to leave when you feel safest. Ensure that your plan is flexible and that you can adjust it as needed.

What to Bring / Document

Identification (ID, passport)
Financial documents (bank info, credit cards)
Legal documents (court orders, custody papers)
Medical records
Essential clothing and personal items
Contact information for support services

What Happens Next

After leaving, focus on establishing a new routine and accessing support services. Consider finding a therapist or counselor who can help you process your experience.

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I do if I feel unsafe? If you are in immediate danger, call local emergency services.
Can I change my phone number? Yes, consider getting a new phone number to maintain privacy.
How can I find legal help? Contact a local attorney for guidance specific to your situation.
What if I don't have money? Explore local resources, including shelters that may provide financial assistance.
Are there support groups nearby? Yes, look for local support groups in West End or nearby areas.

If you want local help, you can privately browse lawyers, therapists, shelters, and hotlines near you at DV.Support.