How Survivors Secretly Prepare to Leave

Documents that may help in your situation

If you're filing or preparing for court, you may need:

📄 Medical Records Release

Authorizes release of your medical records to use as evidence if needed.

These are optional tools — use what feels right for you.

Assess Your Situation

Begin by evaluating your current circumstances. Consider your safety, the resources available to you, and your support network. Understanding your situation can help you make informed decisions.

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Access state-specific legal forms — ready to fill and file.

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Create a Safety Plan

Your safety plan should include steps to follow in case of an emergency. Identify safe places you can go, trusted individuals you can contact, and methods of transportation.

Gather Important Documents

Collect essential documents, such as identification, financial records, and any legal paperwork. Keep these documents in a safe place where you can access them quickly.

Establish a Support Network

Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or support groups who can provide emotional support and practical assistance. Connecting with others can help you feel less alone during this time.

Financial Preparation

If possible, set aside some savings. This can provide you with financial independence and ease the transition. Explore local resources that offer financial assistance for individuals in your situation.

What to Bring / Document Checklist

Identification (ID, passport, etc.)
Financial information (bank statements, credit cards)
Legal documents (court orders, custody papers)
Medical records
Contact information for support services
Personal items (clothing, toiletries)

What Happens Next

After leaving, it’s important to prioritize your safety. Consider changing your phone number, securing your living arrangements, and accessing local resources for ongoing support. Engaging with professionals can help you navigate this transition.

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I do if I feel in immediate danger? Call local emergency services for immediate help.
Can I get legal help? Yes, consult with a qualified local attorney for guidance tailored to your situation.
Are there shelters available in Newton? Yes, there are local shelters that can provide temporary housing and support.
How can I find a therapist? Look for mental health services in your area that specialize in trauma-informed care.
What resources are available for financial support? Various organizations offer financial assistance for individuals in need; research local options.

If you want local help, you can privately browse lawyers, therapists, shelters, and hotlines near you at DV.Support.