How Survivors Secretly Prepare to Leave

Documents that may help in your situation

If you're filing or preparing for court, you may need:

📄 Medical Records Release

Authorizes release of your medical records to use as evidence if needed.

These are optional tools — use what feels right for you.

Leaving an unsafe situation requires careful planning, especially when safety is a concern. Here are some practical steps to help you prepare for a safe exit.

Assess Your Situation

Understanding your circumstances is crucial. Take time to evaluate your safety and the resources available to you.

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Access state-specific legal forms — ready to fill and file.

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Create a Safety Plan

A safety plan is a personalized approach to ensure your safety. Consider the following:

Identify safe places to go, such as friends or family members.
Establish a code word with someone you trust to signal when you need help.
Keep your phone charged and accessible at all times.

Gather Important Documents

Collect essential documents that you may need when you leave:

Identification (driver’s license, passport)
Financial documents (bank statements, pay stubs)
Medical records and insurance information
Legal documents (marriage certificate, custody papers)

Secure Financial Resources

Having access to financial resources is important for your independence. Consider these options:

Open a separate bank account in your name.
Save cash over time whenever possible.
Look into local resources that may offer financial assistance.

Find Support Services

Connecting with support services can provide guidance and assistance. Look for:

Local shelters or safe houses in Jasper.
Counseling services that specialize in trauma.
Support groups for survivors.

What to Bring / Document Checklist

Before leaving, ensure you have the following items ready:

Essential clothing and personal items
All important documents listed above
Emergency phone numbers
Any medications you need

What Happens Next

After you leave, it is important to focus on your safety and well-being:

Stay in touch with trusted friends or family.
Consider changing your phone number and email for privacy.
Explore legal options with a qualified attorney.

Frequently Asked Questions

What if I am in immediate danger? Call local emergency services right away.
Can I get help without my partner knowing? Yes, many local resources offer confidential support.
What if I don't have money to leave? Look for local shelters that provide assistance.
How can I find a lawyer? Visit DV.Support to browse legal resources in your area.
What should I do if I’m being stalked? Reach out to local authorities and support services for immediate help.

If you want local help, you can privately browse lawyers, therapists, shelters, and hotlines near you at DV.Support.