How Survivors Secretly Prepare to Leave
Assess Your Safety
Before making any plans, ensure that you are in a safe environment. If you feel that you are in immediate danger, please contact local emergency services. Take time to assess your situation and identify any immediate risks.
Create a Safety Plan
A safety plan is a personalized, practical plan that includes steps to help you stay safe. Consider the following:
- Identify a safe place to go in case of emergency.
- Have a trusted friend or family member you can reach out to for support.
- Plan how to leave discreetly, including transportation options.
Gather Important Documents
Collect essential documents that you may need when you leave. This may include:
- Identification (passport, driver’s license)
- Birth certificates for you and your children
- Financial information (bank statements, credit cards)
- Medical records
- Any legal documents (marriage certificate, custody agreements)
Find Resources and Support
Research local resources available in Milton and Ontario, including shelters, hotlines, and support groups. Building a support network can be incredibly beneficial as you navigate this process.
What to Bring / Document Checklist
- Personal identification
- Financial documents
- Medical records
- Clothing and personal items
- Important contacts
- Emergency cash
- Medication
- Any items that provide comfort
What Happens Next
After leaving, it’s important to continue prioritizing your safety and well-being. You may want to:
- Seek legal advice regarding your situation. Laws vary, so contacting a qualified local attorney is recommended.
- Consider therapy or counseling to process your experiences and feelings.
- Stay connected with your support network.
- Keep your location private if you feel it is necessary.
Frequently Asked Questions
- 1. What should I do if I can’t leave right away?
- Focus on creating a safety plan and gathering resources while ensuring your immediate safety.
- 2. How can I find local shelters?
- You can search online for shelters in Milton or contact local hotlines for guidance.
- 3. Is it safe to tell friends or family about my situation?
- Only share your situation with those you trust and believe will be supportive.
- 4. How can I manage my finances while planning to leave?
- Consider setting aside emergency funds discreetly and seek financial resources from local organizations.
- 5. What resources are available for legal assistance?
- Local legal aid organizations can provide guidance and support tailored to your situation.
If you want local help, you can privately browse lawyers, therapists, shelters, and hotlines near you at DV.Support.