How Survivors Secretly Prepare to Leave
Leaving an unsafe situation requires careful planning and consideration. Here are some steps to help survivors prepare for a safe exit while ensuring their wellbeing.
Assess Your Situation
Understanding your circumstances is the first step. Identify the risks involved in your current situation and evaluate your support systems. This can help you create a realistic plan.
Create a Safety Plan
Develop a detailed safety plan that includes where you will go, how you will get there, and who can help you. Consider reaching out to trusted friends, family, or local resources for support.
Gather Important Documents
Collect essential documents that you may need when leaving. This can include identification, financial records, medical records, and any legal documents.
Secure Finances
Ensure you have access to your finances. This might involve setting aside some money, opening a separate bank account, or discussing financial support with trusted individuals.
Find a Safe Place
Identify a safe location where you can stay temporarily. This may include shelters in Maryvale or with friends or family who can provide support.
Plan Your Departure
Choose a time to leave when you feel it is safest. Make sure you have a reliable mode of transportation planned out, whether that means using public transport or a friend's help.
What to Bring / Document
- Identification (driver's license, passport)
- Financial documents (bank statements, credit cards)
- Medical records and prescriptions
- Important contact numbers
- Personal items (clothing, hygiene products)
- Children's documents (birth certificates, school records if applicable)
What Happens Next
After leaving, focus on your safety and wellbeing. Reach out to local resources for support, including shelters, counseling services, and legal assistance. Establish a support network to help you navigate the transition.
FAQ
- What should I do if I feel unsafe at home? Consider creating a safety plan and reaching out to local support services.
- Can I leave without telling anyone? Yes, it is your choice to leave, but having a plan can help ensure your safety.
- What if I don’t have money to leave? Look into local resources that may provide financial assistance or support.
- Are shelters safe? Many shelters prioritize safety and confidentiality for those in need.
- How can I find legal help? You can search for local attorneys specializing in domestic issues for guidance.
If you want local help, you can privately browse lawyers, therapists, shelters, and hotlines near you at DV.Support.