How Survivors Secretly Prepare to Leave
Leaving a difficult situation can be daunting, but with proper preparation, survivors can take steps toward safety and a fresh start.
Assessing Your Situation
Understanding your circumstances is the first step. Take time to evaluate your environment and identify potential risks. This awareness will help you plan effectively.
Building a Support Network
Reach out to trusted friends, family, or support groups. Having a network of supportive individuals can provide emotional strength and practical assistance when you decide to leave.
Creating a Safety Plan
Develop a detailed safety plan that includes how and when you will leave. Identify safe places to go and how you will get there. Consider transportation options that keep you safe and discreet.
Gathering Essential Documents
Collect important documents such as identification, financial records, and any legal documents that may be relevant to your situation. Keep these items in a secure, easily accessible place.
Financial Preparation
Consider your financial situation and explore options for securing funds. This may involve opening a separate bank account or finding local resources to assist with expenses post-exit.
What to Bring / Document Checklist
- Identification (ID, passport)
- Financial documents (bank statements, pay stubs)
- Legal documents (court orders, custody agreements)
- Medical records (prescriptions, health insurance info)
- Clothing and personal items
- Emergency contact information
What Happens Next
Once you leave, focus on finding a safe place to stay. This may involve shelters or temporary housing. Reach out to local resources for support, including counseling and legal assistance.
Frequently Asked Questions
- 1. What should I do if I feel unsafe leaving?
- Contact local emergency services if you are in immediate danger.
- 2. How can I find legal help?
- Consider reaching out to local attorneys who specialize in family law or domestic issues.
- 3. Are there shelters available in Calgary?
- Yes, there are various shelters in Calgary that can provide temporary housing and support.
- 4. How can I support a friend who is trying to leave?
- Listen without judgment, offer help with planning, and connect them with local resources.
- 5. What if I don’t have money to leave?
- Look for local resources, including shelters that can provide financial assistance and support.
If you want local help, you can privately browse lawyers, therapists, shelters, and hotlines near you at DV.Support.