How Survivors Secretly Prepare to Leave
Assess Your Situation
Understanding your circumstances is crucial. Take time to evaluate your safety and the resources available to you. Consider reaching out to trusted friends or family members who can provide support.
Create a Safety Plan
A well-thought-out safety plan can help you navigate your departure safely. Include details such as safe places to go, transportation options, and how to communicate with trusted individuals.
Gather Important Documents
Collect essential documents ahead of time. This may include identification, financial records, and any legal documents relevant to your situation. Keep these documents in a secure but easily accessible location.
Secure Financial Resources
Having access to financial resources is vital. Consider setting aside some funds, opening a separate bank account, or exploring community resources that can provide financial support during this transition.
Find Support Services
Explore local resources in Cambridge, such as shelters, hotlines, and support groups. Connecting with professionals who understand your situation can provide guidance and safety.
What to Bring / Document Checklist
- Identification (driver’s license, passport)
- Financial information (bank statements, credit cards)
- Important contacts (phone numbers of friends, family)
- Legal documents (court orders, custody papers)
- Medical records (prescriptions, health insurance cards)
- Personal belongings (clothing, essential items)
What Happens Next
After leaving, it’s important to focus on your well-being. Seek out support from local services and consider speaking with a therapist. Establishing a new routine can help you regain a sense of control and stability.
FAQs
- What if I’m in immediate danger? Call local emergency services for immediate assistance.
- How can I find a lawyer? Research local attorneys who specialize in domestic issues, or visit DV.Support for resources.
- Can I leave without my belongings? Yes, your safety is the priority. You can return for belongings later with support.
- What if my partner tries to contact me? Consider changing your phone number and blocking them on social media.
- How can I support myself emotionally? Seek counseling services, support groups, or trusted friends to talk to.
If you want local help, you can privately browse lawyers, therapists, shelters, and hotlines near you at DV.Support.