How Survivors Secretly Prepare to Leave
Leaving an unsafe situation can be daunting, but with careful planning and preparation, survivors can take steps towards safety and a new beginning.
Assess Your Situation
Understanding your circumstances is crucial. Take time to evaluate your safety, the resources available to you, and the support systems you can rely on.
Develop a Safety Plan
Create a safety plan that outlines steps to take when you decide to leave. This should include where to go, how to get there, and whom to call for help.
Gather Important Documents
Collect essential documents that will be needed for your next steps. This can include identification, financial records, and any legal documents.
Set Up a Support Network
Reach out to trusted friends or family members who can provide emotional support and practical help. Consider local resources like shelters or hotlines that can assist you.
What to Bring / Document
- Identification (driver's license, passport)
- Birth certificates
- Financial documents (bank statements, pay stubs)
- Medical records
- Legal documents (protective orders, custody papers)
- Emergency contact list
- Any medications you need
- Clothing and personal items
What Happens Next
Once you leave, it’s important to connect with support services for ongoing assistance. This can include counseling, legal advice, and housing resources.
FAQ
- What should I do if I'm in immediate danger? Call local emergency services for immediate help.
- How can I find a lawyer? Seek recommendations from local support organizations or visit DV.Support for resources.
- What if I have children? Consider their needs and safety in your plan, and seek family support services.
- Are shelters safe? Most shelters provide a secure environment and can connect you with additional resources.
- Can I keep my pets? Some shelters allow pets; check local resources for pet-friendly options.
If you want local help, you can privately browse lawyers, therapists, shelters, and hotlines near you at DV.Support.