How Survivors Secretly Prepare to Leave

Leaving a difficult situation can be a daunting task, especially for survivors. It’s essential to plan carefully and prioritize your safety throughout the process. This guide offers actionable steps, checklists, and resources to support you during this challenging time.

Assess Your Situation

Understanding your environment is the first step. Take note of your daily routines, the behavior of those around you, and any potential risks involved in leaving.

Create a Safety Plan

Develop a personalized safety plan that outlines clear steps to take when you decide to leave. Include safe locations you can go to, trusted contacts you can call, and crucial information you may need.

Gather Important Documents

Collect and secure essential documents such as identification, financial records, medical information, and any legal papers that may be necessary for your transition.

Consider Financial Resources

Assess your financial situation and explore options for financial assistance. Saving money discreetly can be a helpful step in preparing to leave.

Build a Support Network

Reach out to trusted friends or family members who can provide emotional support during this time. Consider contacting local resources such as shelters or hotlines for additional help.

What to Bring / Document Checklist

• Identification (e.g., driver's license, passport)
• Financial documents (e.g., bank statements, pay stubs)
• Medical records and prescriptions
• Legal documents (e.g., custody papers, restraining orders)
• Personal items (e.g., clothing, toiletries)
• Emergency phone numbers

What Happens Next

After leaving, it’s important to find a safe place to stay, whether that’s with friends, family, or a shelter. Reach out to local resources for ongoing support, and consider legal advice to understand your rights and options.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. How can I ensure my safety when leaving?

Plan your departure carefully and consider seeking assistance from local resources.

2. What if I don’t have money to leave?

Look into local shelters and resources that offer financial assistance for those in need.

3. Can I take my children with me?

Understand your legal rights regarding custody and consult with a qualified attorney.

4. What if I’m being monitored?

Use secure methods of communication and consider a safe place to store your plans and documents.

5. Where can I find local support?

You can contact local shelters, hotlines, or visit DV.Support for resources near you.

If you want local help, you can privately browse lawyers, therapists, shelters, and hotlines near you at DV.Support.